A young man was in love with two women and could not decide which of them to marry. Finally, after much dithering and indecision, he sought the assistance of a marriage counselor.
When asked to describe his two loves, he went on and on about their wonderful qualities and particularly noted that one was a great poet and the other was an excellent cook made delicious pancakes.
"Ohhhhhhhhh" said the counselor, "I see what the problem is . . . ! You can't decide . . .
. . . whether to marry for batter or verse."