tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post2745398610634192964..comments2023-10-16T08:47:15.509-04:00Comments on Kay's Thinking Cap: LossKay Dennisonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02646717192332313215noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-71249384922148693992013-03-31T11:38:44.504-04:002013-03-31T11:38:44.504-04:00OMG Kay....I'm SO very sorry for the loss of y...OMG Kay....I'm SO very sorry for the loss of your ex. And I'm sorry that I'm late in telling you. I've been in a kind of blogging slump for a while....as you probably can tell. So I haven't even really been going on my blog or checking out my blogging friends much. I hope I get out of it soon. I'm sending you a lot of hugs....(((((((((Kay)))))))). I'm so very Joy Des Jardinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04893445642606862131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-57019916972481175882013-03-31T11:35:40.946-04:002013-03-31T11:35:40.946-04:00OMG Kay....I'm SO very sorry for the loss of y...OMG Kay....I'm SO very sorry for the loss of your ex. And I'm sorry that I'm late in telling you. I've been in a kind of blogging slump for a while....as you probably can tell. So I haven't even really been going on my blog or checking out my blogging friends much. I hope I get out of it soon. I'm sending you a lot of hugs....(((((((((Kay)))))))). I'm so very Joy Des Jardinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04893445642606862131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-9519074350673953562013-03-29T20:37:44.498-04:002013-03-29T20:37:44.498-04:00I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in ...I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. xo<br />~aAnnieofbluegableshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17106750987640776507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-5567566767209298212013-03-27T16:59:04.088-04:002013-03-27T16:59:04.088-04:00I agree with Mare completely, Kay. Please take ca...I agree with Mare completely, Kay. Please take care of yourself. I'm so sorry for the sad time you're going through. Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07461569436322815787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-6399864310069500972013-03-26T19:18:03.820-04:002013-03-26T19:18:03.820-04:00My ex husband [and father of my son] died 15 years...My ex husband [and father of my son] died 15 years after our divorce, and it was still the end of a meaningful relationship. Try to resist the need to defend your feelings or actions toward your ex...you owe no one nothing. Very sorry that the kids also caused additional grief. Hang in there. Spring is coming. Again, I am sorry for your loss. Keep posting, so your cyber friends will know youMarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10392772375911488097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-56186460168314981322013-03-26T12:04:18.138-04:002013-03-26T12:04:18.138-04:00Thinking of you, Kay. Hope there is comfort in re...Thinking of you, Kay. Hope there is comfort in recalling how you moved to a better connection with one another. yours, naominaomi dagen bloomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16636592739857173279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-73805876303827157492013-03-24T03:52:09.040-04:002013-03-24T03:52:09.040-04:00I can appreciate what you've been through -- t...I can appreciate what you've been through -- the unexpected sudden events, anxious concerns following his stroke which you would uniquely understand. I send you my sympathy with this loss. Be kind to yourself and patient.joaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09999395062839739698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-45824084704298538292013-03-24T03:51:39.002-04:002013-03-24T03:51:39.002-04:00I can appreciate what you've been through -- t...I can appreciate what you've been through -- the unexpected sudden events, anxious concerns following his stroke which you would uniquely understand. I send you my sympathy with this loss. Be kind to yourself and patient.joaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09999395062839739698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-44385004638184924362013-03-23T18:48:06.860-04:002013-03-23T18:48:06.860-04:00What Alice said is so true... couldn't say it ...What Alice said is so true... couldn't say it better than she did...<br />As far as the children are concern.... people handle grief in different ways...<br />give them about 6 months to a year, and hopefully they come back around.. <br />I don't know what they expected.. i don't think they knew or know.. and that could<br />be a big part of the problem.. Sorry it turn out the way it Word Tosserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03519547102435672497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-82252865234455905812013-03-23T14:39:18.833-04:002013-03-23T14:39:18.833-04:00Kay, I'm so very sorry. Never mind the "e...Kay, I'm so very sorry. Never mind the "ex" part -- people come into our lives for a reason, and unless they're actively doing us harm, they deserve our consideration. I'm glad you continued your relationship and wish you solace going forward.Vol-Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540700805961806596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-43546029250591333012013-03-23T11:38:50.235-04:002013-03-23T11:38:50.235-04:00What a shock that must have been! It's so impo...What a shock that must have been! It's so important at this time in our lives to have friends--even if they were exes. You two went through some very trying times together, and probably understood each other better than anyone else. It's so great you were able to rekindle that friendship before this happened. Guilt feels even heavier than grief, and it's wonderful you were spared thatAlicehttp://wintersong.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-24551709323958108372013-03-23T04:33:09.036-04:002013-03-23T04:33:09.036-04:00Kay, I am really sorry. I know that all that is ve...Kay, I am really sorry. I know that all that is very hard to take, and I hope you can find peace with all of it. kenjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07342414519714356343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-32153948177808395762013-03-23T00:49:25.398-04:002013-03-23T00:49:25.398-04:00Kay,
You're in my thoughts and prayers.Kay,<br />You're in my thoughts and prayers. <br /><br />Lornahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08976144449873569523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-86845091246904440142013-03-22T22:31:57.791-04:002013-03-22T22:31:57.791-04:00Oh, how terribly hard to be dealing with so much! ...Oh, how terribly hard to be dealing with so much! What a wonderful thing that you were able to remaing friends and that it was you there with him. I am so sorry that your kids are not there for you. But we are all keeping you with us in our thoughts. This is going to be a hard time, you are strong.....keep one foot in front of the other. Sometimes that is all we can ask of ourselves.chlosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10476371332873753350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-12636975915260054792013-03-22T21:57:47.287-04:002013-03-22T21:57:47.287-04:00It saddens me to hear of your loss.It saddens me to hear of your loss.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03204625068309822016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-35584706838370482952013-03-22T20:08:25.412-04:002013-03-22T20:08:25.412-04:00Oh, Kay, I am so very sorry. You are in my though...Oh, Kay, I am so very sorry. You are in my thoughts tonight. la peregrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10992459469931809488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-78522590249067635972013-03-22T17:56:07.417-04:002013-03-22T17:56:07.417-04:00I'm so very sorry. You bet I am keeping you i...I'm so very sorry. You bet I am keeping you in my thoughts. My Ex is dying now...and I keep him in my prayers too. Hugs from here.Magehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17333086721654817750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-12965355414131480322013-03-22T17:36:09.896-04:002013-03-22T17:36:09.896-04:00Kay--I am so sorry for the loss of your loved ex. ...Kay--I am so sorry for the loss of your loved ex. We are all pretty helpless as we extend our wishes to you.<br />Cop CarAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-58959637115393600232013-03-22T16:17:51.123-04:002013-03-22T16:17:51.123-04:00I'm sorry for your loss. My ex and I didn'...I'm sorry for your loss. My ex and I didn't part enemies, and we did talk a lot to each other over the years. What bothered me most, when he died, was the number of friends who assumed I didn't care. Bettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07309266986583326824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-41908599440579678522013-03-22T15:17:36.964-04:002013-03-22T15:17:36.964-04:00I am sorry to hear this as I know how important hi...I am sorry to hear this as I know how important his friendship was to you and how much you loved him in the truest sense. I wish you comfort through this difficult time. Rain Trueaxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07994628226501093880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-56420509077556352912013-03-22T14:26:45.675-04:002013-03-22T14:26:45.675-04:00I too am sorry for your loss. When I divorced we ...I too am sorry for your loss. When I divorced we did not stay friends. I acted in a very childish manner that I now regret and wish I had had the opportunity to say good by as a friend. He died a year and a half ago. Maria from Silver Foxhttp://silverfox-whispers.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-78385347915714124242013-03-22T13:45:59.979-04:002013-03-22T13:45:59.979-04:00I am sorry for your loss, losing a friend and some...I am sorry for your loss, losing a friend and someone you share such a history with is very sad. Sending good wishes your way.Celiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14485118642482033233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-79988602519466367382013-03-22T13:27:46.558-04:002013-03-22T13:27:46.558-04:00Kay, I am so sorry. Just do all the sorting now, ...Kay, I am so sorry. Just do all the sorting now, and start on the changes later, OK. Joanne Noragonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09834682329952369721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-91332676340831186692013-03-22T12:10:21.048-04:002013-03-22T12:10:21.048-04:00Kay, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember when...Kay, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember when I divorced and was so glad we were able to remain friends. Thankfully we didn't have any children. You are in my thoughts and have all my best wishes.MaryContraryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16350460293199385621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-46393110020379881472013-03-22T11:58:01.643-04:002013-03-22T11:58:01.643-04:00That is terrible news Kay!! Please accept Shirl an...That is terrible news Kay!! Please accept Shirl and I's condolences. Government Funded Bloggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14937389348779245666noreply@blogger.com