tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post1448091968578413990..comments2023-10-16T08:47:15.509-04:00Comments on Kay's Thinking Cap: Anger and ViolationKay Dennisonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02646717192332313215noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-26317067000346063762008-05-22T01:58:00.000-04:002008-05-22T01:58:00.000-04:00Kay, I'm sorry that someone stole your things from...Kay, I'm sorry that someone stole your things from your patio and I don't blame you for being angry and fearful of something worse happening. My own neighborhood is fairly safe, so periodically crazy things do happen. I sure keep my doors locked these days, I'll tell you that, and it helps that I have a dog who barks (at least for now; she's sick).<BR/><BR/>In the patios on many of the city Fran aka Redondowriterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10603407790426583209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-72842706229828706922008-05-21T15:37:00.000-04:002008-05-21T15:37:00.000-04:00So posting a comment on what happened to us will p...So posting a comment on what happened to us will probably not be earth-shattering, since most of these comments also mentioned their times of violation. My poor little daughter who has been frightened of "white vans" because those are "robber vans" has had someone break into her and her husbands vehicles three times. Once they stole her scriptures! Who steals scriptures???? Once her childhood Annieofbluegableshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17106750987640776507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-60300738973976293562008-05-21T03:10:00.000-04:002008-05-21T03:10:00.000-04:00Surely do empathize with your anger, frustration a...Surely do empathize with your anger, frustration and feelings of violation since I experienced this intrusion, into my life twice many years earlier. I'd like to think that by some fluke your belongings will be returned, but maybe that's too much to hope for. I do hope you're able to make that trip to Motown.joaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09999395062839739698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-75999521135873812252008-05-20T15:45:00.000-04:002008-05-20T15:45:00.000-04:00I mad for you! I'll never understand people's gall...I mad for you! I'll never understand people's gall! When we moved here to SLC in Utah, I asked Hubby to have the locks changed because the house had passed through so many different owners in the past 10 years or so, and who knew who had keys to our doors! We were only given two, and the couple who were here before had two grown children...nope, Hubby said, this is Salt Lake City, where there's Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-24047694894522027882008-05-19T08:47:00.001-04:002008-05-19T08:47:00.001-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.kenjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07342414519714356343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-70568720317154902692008-05-19T08:47:00.000-04:002008-05-19T08:47:00.000-04:00Kay, I am so sorry. You vent that anger all you ne...Kay, I am so sorry. You vent that anger all you need to. I understand how you feel. My mom's porch was vandalized years ago, and some stuff was taken that she was very fond of. It was terrible to see how violated she felt. She rode all over town looking on people's porches, hoping to see her stuff, but had no luck. I hope yours is found.kenjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07342414519714356343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-34690794477833904842008-05-19T07:45:00.000-04:002008-05-19T07:45:00.000-04:00How terrible that happened to you.I know exactly h...How terrible that happened to you.<BR/>I know exactly how you are feeling because a few years ago someone broke into our home. <BR/>You feel violated, angry and upset right now. Fortunately after time it does get better but you NEVER forget.<BR/>TAKE CARE.Bear Nakedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10911207797995309155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-15975990736670931712008-05-19T07:43:00.000-04:002008-05-19T07:43:00.000-04:00I'd be angry and feel violated, too. I'm sorry thi...I'd be angry and feel violated, too. I'm sorry this happened to you, Kay. I still feel violated over what happened with my blog last year, because that was a friend who did it (based on the two people to whom it was mailed). Stealing, being sneaky... I guess I just don't understand those people's mindsets (and lack of a conscience).Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16706134799870107518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-76121527297269647622008-05-19T06:49:00.000-04:002008-05-19T06:49:00.000-04:00Been there, done that... and felt that same way......Been there, done that... and felt that same way... violated... For things like this cops are useless. On my break-in many years ago, the security system siren scared them off quickly, so all they got was a small TV and portable microwave sitting by the French doors they kicked in. I asked the police if they weren't going to take fingerprints. They looked at me like I was from another planet, Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-90069655921161488642008-05-19T06:23:00.000-04:002008-05-19T06:23:00.000-04:00Yes, one feels violated after a burglary. Bummer! ...Yes, one feels violated after a burglary. Bummer! We had an attempted burglary last year here.<BR/><BR/>The dogs brought us a piece of the burglar's trousers. Just wish they'd gotten a DNA samplable piece of flesh too ;-)<BR/><BR/>My commiserations, FWIW.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20703123.post-71710424964722076372008-05-18T22:58:00.000-04:002008-05-18T22:58:00.000-04:00I think you are justified to be angry and express ...I think you are justified to be angry and express it. That is scary and definitely the kind of thing to make a person feel violated. When we tolerate such and think it's how it will always be, it will be that way. We should be upset. Suzann from Journey to a New Life wrote about identity theft where someone was trying to use her identity to steal. It's like our police don't feel they can do Rain Trueaxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07994628226501093880noreply@blogger.com